A good post from another blog. I am not saying they are 100% right, but a lot of good points are made.
I know we have been very, very frustrated with how the system works. I called, emailed and called again to get information about adopting a waiting child in my state and others and almost never get a call back. It is very disheartening.
We do plan to update our home study for foster care but since we are planning to move to another state in the near future it just didn't seem to make sense for right now. I hope NJ is better at it than NY... *sigh*
Upside-Down Adoption: Foster Care Adoptions: How Not to Give Up (Part One First Draft)